It is important to recognize the warning signs of domestic abuse to determine if you are at risk. Common red flags include:
- A push for a quick relationship/commitment
- Jealous and possessive behavior
- Tries to control your life
- Unrealistic expectations
- Isolates you from or is critical of friends, family and relatives
- Blames others for his/her problems and mistakes
- Makes everyone else responsible for his/her feelings
- Says his/her feelings are easily hurt
- Cruel to animals and children
- “Playful” use of force during sex
- Yelling and name-calling
- Rigid gender roles
- Sudden mood swings, including explosive moods and rage
- History of battering
- Threats of violence
- Time and activity keeper
- Jealousy and accusations of infidelity
- Making all the decisions
- Double personality
- Abusive past
If you’ve experienced any one of these signs, please call the Domestic Abuse Hotline and talk with an advocate at 407-847-8562.